Wow today took the WordPress time machine and started reading all my old posts. I can’t believe I’ve been on hormones for over two years now! I remember thinking I would never get to this point and omg does it feel amazing! I feel like a different human. So here’s what’s been going on in my life lately
I miss living in the city!
So I moved out of the city and back to my home town… so there’s some good and some bad about that first I’ll tell you the good things.
My friends have been so supportive I have amazing people in my life who really have just blown my mind. They use my pronouns (most of the time) and even when they don’t they usually just apologize and move on, which is great. I can afford to live hear, it was so expensive living in the city it was hard to survive.
And now the bad: the average person in my home town. Not so accepting. One of the key examples of this is my Trump loving Mom. Now I gad plans to come out to my mom knowing she would probably disown I had a timeline and everything but, then she was diagnosed with cancer. She had to have a hysterectomy and is going threw radiation now… so I haven’t done it. Womp womp
My kids are growing like crazy.
Here’s the part where everyone hates me for showing off my kids but it’s my keyboard m***er f***er so deal with it. My daughter will be seven in March and my son will be 2 in January time is freaking flying by I wish they could stay little for just a bit longer. My kids are home schooled and we like many homeschooling parents worry about how we’re doing but, this year has been amazing my daughter is so good at math it’s crazy. We thought she was having trouble reading and writing but we’ve found out that she’s ahead of most of her peers in public school so I guess we’re kicking ass. Our pediatrician says our son is way ahead of other two year olds speech wise so that’s awesome. All in all I think I’m killing it at this whole parenting thing.
I feel pretty.
This my sound stupid but it’s a pretty big deal to me. My whole life I’ve been told that I was handsome and that might sound like a compliment but when you’re trans it’s a prison being attractive in the wrong gender doesn’t feel good at all. When I was younger I used to think that nobody would like me if I transitioned I thought I could never look like the trans women I idolized and I don’t, but does any women look like the girls on the magazines? No everyone is different and all beautiful in our own way. I guess I’m just saying I like the way I look for the first time in my life. It’s been a crazy couple of years but I’m so happy I’ve come this far.